a community at the table
We believe that the best memories & conversations happen over a shared meal. The Dinner Club is a curated social space where we bring together thoughtfully matched groups of people for intimate dinners in the heart of big cities like San Diego and San Francisco.
the journey to dinner
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Request to Join
Complete a short application and tell us a about yourself!
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Applications are reviewed on a rolling basis and selected members are contacted via email.
Applications Reviewed
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Join the Club
Become part of The Dinner Club community and receive invitations to curated dinners. You'll also be the first to hear about pop-up dining experiences and food events we host, discover local restaurant recommendations, and connect with fellow food lovers across your city.
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Get Matched & Reserve Your Seat
If selected for a dinner, confirm your spot with a $10 seat reservation. This helps cover planning, coordination, and ensures committed attendance :)
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Meet for Dinner
Show up, enjoy great food, and connect with people you might not otherwise meet!
previous dinners & events
A look into our past dinner gatherings...
voices of the club
"I thoroughly enjoyed my experience and can't wait to do it again! Our group is even trying to plan a second meetup!"
Elizabeth, San Diego Member
"The dinner was lovely. The restaurant staff was amazing and the food even better. It was such a well curated group! You'll have to join us next time!"
Noelani R., San Francisco Member
"The girls and I have hung out on several occasions since our first dinner!"
Lilly P., San Diego Member
questions
How does the matching process work?
We use a combination of personality information, interests, and conversation styles to thoughtfully curate each dinner group. Our goal is to bring together people who have enough in common to connect, while also bringing different experiences and perspectives to the table.
Where are the dinners held?
Our dinners take place at restaurants throughout San Diego and San Francisco. We choose restaurants we personally love that are welcoming to groups and great for conversation. These are regular dining experiences—not private events—with Dinner Club members gathering around a shared table.
Is the Dinner Club free to join?
Yes. Joining The Dinner Club is completely free. If selected for a curated dinner, members are asked to pay a $10 seat reservation to confirm attendance. Dinner costs are paid directly to the restaurant.
Why do I need to pay?
For the past year, I've organized curated dinners free of charge because I genuinely love bringing people together. As the community grew, so did the time and effort required to create a great experience.
The $10 seat reservation helps cover the work that goes into thoughtfully curating groups, coordinating with restaurants, communicating with guests, and designing and purchasing custom table cards with conversation menus.
It also helps reduce last-minute cancellations and ensures that seats go to people who are committed to attending.
meet the founder!
It all started when I realized that my favorite memories from high school, college, and life in general weren't made at parties, on trips, or while shopping, they were made around a dining table. I've always loved gathering over a meal. In fact, if I was going to leave the house, it was usually because someone invited me to eat. Whether it was with friends, family, or people I had just met, some of the best conversations always seemed to happen over food. Having lived in big cities my entire life, I've also seen how difficult it can be to meet new people and build genuine connections. So I started wondering: what better way to bring people together than over dinner?